It's weird, since I'm "only" traveling with the toddler and not my older child as well, I feel like I can pack pretty light. Looking at the pile I'm taking makes me feel like I'm forgetting something, or a lot of somethings. I'm usually in charge of packing for everyone around here.
The only way in which I'm not packing light is shoes. I always take too many shoes. You never know what shoes you'll want to wear, though, at least, I don't!